Had another meet up wif my old frens juz now. It's not so often where we could juz meet as and when we like, esp wif all our work commitments. For this two dear frens of mine, is more of a bi-monthly event. With no confirmation whether, will there be another meetup @ the end of the 2 months.
I did enjoy the meetup very much, telling one another what happened in our lifes. The main thing is that we find each another very comfortable to be with, and can juz be ourselves, without having to pretend this and that. Not having to worry about being backstabbed by other ppl, who we presumly might trust. Nowadays in the working world, there aint much that we can safely call frens out there. It maybe juz me, but after working out there for some time, i realise that sometimes ppl out there aint what they seems to be. Even IF it's an ex-poly classmate. Sometimes things will turn out unexpectedly.
Sometimes, being friendly with another person is one thing, but the other person might be juz using u to further his means. I had the good fortune to meet this kind of ppl up close, having known that the criteria to be their 'fren' is to be of value to them. Once u have outlived ur usefulness, that's when things grow ugly. Luckily my closer frens dun walk out of me, guess tat's y they are the closer ones...=) Going the extra miles for them dun mean anything to me, tat's a given. Why can't i have more of them...? i am definitely greedy, tat's for sure..=)
p.s. Thank god i met them. If not, god knows what will happen to me already.