Was rather busy with settling outstanding stuffs at work. Everytime when things goes into motion, i would be so engrossed in getting things done that i would put everything else on my mind aside. Trying my best to get things done, one by one. Once i get things done, they are put off from my mind. Up till now, almost got everything done up for my coming trip. =) there's aint much left, onli left the packing of my luggage, doing up my laptop and the shifting of my room. Other than that, is to settle the outstanding desktops that i have out there.
It's always been the case when something huge happens in your partner's life. Like a major sickness, and the first thing that comes to your partner's mind, is to want out of the relationship. Wanting to spare me from the problem, and be the onli one to face the problem. Aint that selfish or what? Previously when i was holding my problems back. I got a lecture from her, as i aint sharing my life with her, which i shld have done. But now when she face a major problem, the first thing she was thinking is to break up.
I always believe that when things happen. What we shld do as partners, is to let the other partner know and let him/her decide. Things shld be laid out, and discussed. Rather than deciding on juz by one of them. Cuz it's not onli one life that's affected, it's the both of them. Things might be tough goin, but it's to be decided by the both of them. Decisions are to be made jointly, for good or for the bad.