Although I never did know how it come to be. In a bid to prevent misunderstandings from the opposite gender, as feedback-ed by someone. I decided to give all meetups a miss. I feel that my conscience is clear, but well.
I never did find a point at arguing, even when I am accused of doing something that I did not. Unless people seriously pissed me off. So, just take the heat, and leave things to be. I know that it might seems like I am avoiding them, as though I got a guilty conscience. Since there's nothing much that I got to say anyway, so no harm done I suppose.