I think i might have wrote something regarding this before, maybe it might have perished in the midst of self-censorship, or maybe it have just been passed through my mind at one time or another.
For the longest time ever, i had always been lamenting the fact that i am more or less unable to choose the route that i had been going, all the while. I am very sorry to those who had been hearing me complain, again and again and AGAIN. I have finally realised. After so many years, that there's ALWAYS a choice, and a decision to be made. It's just that sometimes the decision to be made, is obvious, unless you opt to go for the more extreme one.
Like for example, i had decided to help pay for the house installments. As in, placing the house under my name, and paying thru my CPF(Money which will outlive me anyway). Did i tell you about the time, which i was out of a job for 2 months. Cleared out my bank acct, but still have 10+k in CPF? Don't think i am able to withdraw that money for basic necessities right? Imagine dying of hunger, yet there's still 10+k in CPF. And i digress. The alternative, as my friend have suggested, is to sever all family ties. Which do, in a way, solve the problem. Simply put, by not making the problem, my problem.
Somehow or rather, the solution which my friend have suggested, dun really sit well with me. Not to say that i am filial or something liddat. Just that i dun really like to owe people things, especially when i got this tendency to brood on things that i owe. Think, think, think and think...
I rather think of paying off the house as it's something that i owe the family. Paying off it, will take off some 'responsibility' from me ba.