Damn, juz wrote a lengthy one and blogger juz din publish on it... o_o" Guess i try to reconstruct it...
It's surprising to me that people do change, for good or for worse. It's a gradual kind of thing, where people out there, might not realise that it's happening. Some people will change fast, some slow. Some would, some wouldn't. Change is not neccesarily a bad thing, as its might be a chance that it's a change for the better.
In a relationship, people do want their partners to change for the better. But isn't it the best to accept the person as who they are? Instead of trying to change the person, to suit urself. There ain't alot of people that i know, but everyone out there isn't perfect. Everyone have their strengths and weaknesses. Bad habits are meant to be broken, as long as everyone works on it. It's only that some of my frens is actually changing themselves to suit their partners. Not that i got anything against that. As long as everyone is happy, it's not going to bother me much. Juz hope the person who change for the sake of others is happy enough.
From one of my fren's relationship... She's actually happily attached to a guy, for a few years. He's those mild mannered kind of guy who really dotes on her. I was rather glad that her relationship would work out, as there's too many broken relationships out there. Actually i was thinking that her relationship would be one of those fairytale kind of relationship. Few years passed peacefully, but seems that the guy himself, changed during the past year. He changed from a mild mannered kind of guy, to a hell driver, a road bully. It's kind of a too drastic change. One that really gave me a shock when she told me about their relationship. I felt sorry for her, as it's not her fault that the relationship turned out sour.
Change itself is inevitable, i guess. I believe that for those ppl who went thru lots of things in the reality called Life, would most probably change for the better. Sad events do make you grow, as part of the growing up process. Juz hope that you wouldn't be overwhelmed by sad events and make you bitter. To everything. Unfortunately i been thru that, and it's aint that fun to start with.